Bella You - Support for Mothers who are Parenting After Loss
Hello beautiful Mums. I am here to let you know that you are not alone. I see you and I am here to support you. I am here to help you get from where you are right now to where you want your life to be.
I am a Pregnancy Loss and Trauma Informed Practitioner, and I specialise in Parenting After Pregnancy Loss. My goal for you is that you will be able to acknowledge and honor your loss / losses, come to a place of acceptance, fall in love with your life again and look towards a brighter future.
I will help you honor the baby in your heart (your Angel baby) whilst celebrating and welcoming your Rainbow baby into your life.
My packages are personalised and tailored to where you are in your healing and parenting journey right now. There is no one size fits all. I take an individual approach, recognising and understanding that the healing process is so unique and personal to you. Along my own journey I have experienced fertility issues and 2 traumatic births (my first was stillborn and my second spent a few months in NICU). I understand that parenting after loss is very different to parenting when you have not experienced pregnancy or infant loss.
All of our parenting journeys are different. I am here to help you recognise and acknowledge your own personal experience and assist you with healing any trauma and emotions. I am here to walk with you on this journey.
Who do I work with?
If you feel drawn to work with me then please reach out. My passion lies with Mothers who are parenting after loss. With the heartbreaking statistic that 1 in 4 women will experience a miscarriage in their life and on average 6 stillborn babies are born in Australia every day, I have created a safe space, filled with love, light and understanding.
You can know that when you work with me, you are working with a mother who has experienced loss and who is also now parenting after loss.
All Sessions can be held over the phone or via Zoom, so you can be anywhere in the world and still work with me.
Am I the right coach for you?
- I want to help you experience the joy of raising your Rainbow Baby; whilst also recognising the love you have for your Angel child / children.
- I want you to know that you do not have to feel guilt over the loss of your baby, nor do you need to feel any guilt over loving and raising your Rainbow baby.
- I understand that the anxiety in pregnancy and parenting after loss is very real. And for some Mums it can be difficult to bond with your Rainbow Baby, or you can experience real fear of losing them too.
- I am here to give you permission to love yourself and enjoy your life again. I also understand that grief is a forever thing, and it comes in waves throughout our lives.
- I am here to assure you that you are not alone on this journey. You have been through a traumatic event in your life and I understand how hard this can be.
- I understand that it is perfectly okay to share a little or a lot about both your Angel Baby / Babies and your Rainbow Baby.
- I want you to know that you can still lead a fulfilled and amazing life. You have experienced trauma and loss. But this does not have to define you.
Package One
Personalised Sessions
How these sessions will benefit you, regardless of where you are in your healing journey (I will meet you where you are right now):
- One on one personalised sessions with someone who has been through loss.
- Acknowledging your loss in an understanding and peaceful environment.
- Bring a voice to your emotions.
- Become aware of how to be more in control of your emotions and actions.
- Shift your thought patterns from self blame into self love.
- Allow yourself to trust again and be at peace.
- Acknowledge that you aren’t the same woman as before your loss, so re-establishing a new identity.
- Identifying any limiting beliefs that have been created.
- Learn how to reframe your current thoughts and feelings to more powerful ones.
- Learn effective ways to embrace the present and design a new path moving forward.
This journey starts with YOU, so let’s get YOU back to where you want to be with these one on one sessions.
3 weekly sessions over Zoom (60 mins per session) with email support for $250
Package Two
Personalised Sessions – Parenting After Loss
What you can experience if you are ready & willing:
- One on one personalised sessions with someone who has been through loss.
- Understand the importance of embracing YOUR story.
- Acknowledging and accepting your rawness, grief and loss. Especially as you are now parenting your rainbow baby.
- Move from being in your head to connecting with your heart.
- The importance of recognising and understanding your emotions and triggers.
- The importance of setting boundaries in your life.
- Start to forgive yourself for what has happened and know that it is not your fault.
- Learn effective ways to embrace the present and design a new path moving forward.
This journey starts with YOU, so let’s get YOU back to where you want to be, and help you find joy in your new baby with these one on one sessions.
6 fortnightly sessions over 12 weeks over Zoom (60 mins per session), with direct support for $600
I am a Pregnancy Loss & Trauma Informed Practitioner, Coach and Mentor. I support women to navigate Motherhood After Loss in a nurturing and safe environment.